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Code no more. That’s what I told him. You would have thought that I cursed him for eternity. All I did, was say no. Here’s how the scenario played out.
A friend of a friend approached me wanting to know how to cheat on his wife. You see his wife, read an article on things to look for when your man is cheating. He asked if in my 3 decades of counseling and coaching, if there were things he could do to stay one step ahead of his already suspicious wife. I said yes, don’t cheat. He was really persistent, saying there must be things that are dead give a ways. Truth be told, there are.
I already knew he had a burner phone. You know, a phone that no one really knew about and that couldn’t be traced back to him. In other words, a burner phone to burn her. Dude, that’s just messed up. His justification was that he had not cheated. Having the phone in the event that an opportunity presents itself, already opens the door to infidelity.
It’s not for me to judge. But if you come at me thinking “Bro Code” binds us together, you must be out of your mind. Let alone to commit a violation upon your wife. And I don’t care what she’s done to you. If you’re unhappy or she’s cheated on you, sack up and move on if you’re unhappy. Fighting fire with fire, only creates a bigger fire.
You want a code. How about a code of conduct. Be honorable. Because having a burner phone to burn her, will leave you with no honor.
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Sometimes I sit and wonder do think if how our actions, code of conduct and thinking may affect our significant other ??. Would I liked to be burned????? No never then why burn my partner. Some may say for that attention that’s lacking, I say let’s make it work if not rather than burn just move on
This is a significant blog plus I love that the author attached people of color too., nice.
I can see if the participants are young and hasn’t been through life as yet. What really bothers me is when participants are older like in their 50’s and are still playing those games now that’s a big shame and embarrassing.
First I must agree it is nice to see the blogger attached people of color. About this blog fighting fire with fire never works. I’m of the opinion that most of us knows that by now, what I don’t understand is why do it when we already know what the outcome will be . There is an option walk away.
This piece has opened a ton of thoughts about the way one can think. I must extend my appreciation to the writer of this blog. It also provides an opportunity for individual soul searching on how we can live peaceably with our partners.